OP: That is correct, my lady.
Nel: The next message you sent "I don't want anything but amazing for you and I" and I. "The fact that I didn't feel well is not excuse". "
OP: I didn't mind her talking to him, but I felt that she excluded me. It was as if I wasn't there.
Nel: Again you were upset because you were excluded from the conversation.
Nel: "I asked Martin to put the CD into the car. You could have leaned forward and whispered to me to change the music" Again, you say she is at fault?
OP: No, I never said she was at fault there.
Nel: "I was upset that you left me"
Judge: One minute, I am not sure where you are now.
Nel: The third line, my lady. The first lines you say "I am sorry". I get it as you are blaming her, she was wrong.
OP: I was not blaming her, she could have introduced me. That is what the argument was about. If someone is talking to me and you are with me, then I would introduce you.
Nel: You are blaming her for what happened, she was wrong>
OP: Yes, my lady. That is what I am saying.
Nel: "I asked Martin to but the CD in", blaming her again "You could have just leaned forward and whispered". You are blaming her again.
OP: I didn't know the albums, I like some of the songs on the album. Granted she took offence to some of the lyrics on the song.
Nel: You are blaming her again, by saying she must leaning over and give you all the attention and whisper in your ear.
OP: I am not blaming her for the sang. She could have asked Martin to change the song. She only told me later that she didn't like the song.
Nel: But in this heart felt message to you, this is how you respond.
Nel: "I was 30 minutes late, because I had to pick up your friend"
Nel: So were you upset by it, that it was her friend?
OP: It was just she wanted to spend time with her friend, Darren. We arrived late because of her friend. It was not my fault that got there late. We had to leave early for me.
OP: Her friend had a car and lived near by.
Nel: Again you replied her, that it is not your fault. It's your friend Gina's fault. It's not all my fault. Is that what you are saying here?
OP: I am saying that on both sides there are plans that did not go according to plan. I can understand that she wanted to be there earlier, but we couldn't.
Nel: The first three lines of this response is "I'm sorry, sorry" and then it you blaming her.
OP: No, my lady, at the end I do apologise to her about the voices she made.
Nel: The middle is just about you blaming her.
Nel: Let us carry on "When we left, I was hungry and upset" I am putting to you that is what we have here.
Nel: You apologise and then blame her and then apologise.
OP: I wasn't trying to shed the blame onto her. At certain times I didn't feel that I was wrong and at certain times she didn't feel that she was wrong.
Nel: My lady, I forgot. I just want to go back. What song was it? Was it not "Some bitch that kills your vibe"?
OP: My lady, I do not know what song it was. Perhaps that is why she made context to it in her message.
Nel: Rightly so, if after that event, and you put that song on.
OP: I can't remember what song was on, my lady.
Nel: Let us deal with page 301 of 343, the "whatsapp".
Nel: "I like to believe that I make you proud when I attend these functions with you", " I was just being cordial by saying good-bye while you where busy"
Nel: You never gave her interest?
Nel: She was wrong? She should not have done it.
OP: That is correct, my lady.
Nel: But that is now the second time in 2 weeks, that you brushed her off in front of others?
OP: It was not in front of others, they were already in their car. It was the fact that I didn't know where she was. When I finally got to the exit to get signal. I saw her.
OP: It wasn't a loud argument. But it was loud enough that Mr. Fern could hear it getting into his car.
Nel: I hear what you are saying but she had to say "I am a person too"
OP: That is what she is saying. Reeva was a person that could stand up for herself. If I treated her badly, she would have left. I didn't treat her bad.
OP: That was an argument that did not last long, if you look at the next message.